Hello beautiful souls of this wonderful planet!
I hope your day was as filled with sun as mine – if not on the sky, at least in the heart.
Today I want to touch very dear topic to my heart. Divine timeline. What does the divine timeline mean and how can you make sure that you are following it?
We all have a choice to live different versions of our lives. If you look into the future, we can say that you have different timelines laid out in front of you. All the versions are possible. From the worst scenario to the best ones. Which one is actually coming to reality depends on your daily personal decisions and actions.
So let’s look into what influence the manifestation of a specific timeline?
1. Your Focus
2. Your Choices
3. Your Action
First one is easy. What you focus on expands. Always. Wherever you are placing your attention, that’s what is growing. If you are focusing on your limitations, fears and doubts, they are growing. Every. Single. Time. Fortunately, it’s the same with goals, dreams and ideas. If you focus on them, they will grow automatically. It’s a law. It’s like gravity – it doesn’t choose who it’s influencing. It just does its magic. So pay attention on the stories that you are saying and be aware of what is coming out of your mouth.
Do you have the tendency to tell everyone about the drama you experienced yesterday? Do you talk about that angry guy you saw on the streets? Or do you choose to accept those situations and not offer them any of your precious energy? I’m not saying you need to ignore what is. Yet, you can accept it. Say to yourself: “It is, the way it is.” Getting detached from the drama outside of you will allow you to be more detached from your internal drama noise.
Instead of focusing on what is bothering you, find the beauty around you. Go to see the precious nature. Look at the stars, catch the sunset, hug the tree. Don’t say it’s hard – all it takes is a decision to do it! 🙂
Every single day is full of choices. We need to make so many decisions and our brain has a limited capacity to make decisions. So let say that you wake up in the morning and you keep on pressing the snooze button and every single time you are trying to make a decision whether you are waking up or sleeping a little longer. If you press the snooze button 3 times it means that before you get out of bed, you already used 3 decisions in a day. The next thing is your breakfast, your clothes, etc… By the time you have your day rolling, you used up a precious amount of “decision ability” already.
This is the reason why most successful and highly productive people wake up early and have built habits. When you are having a specific routine, you are not using your brain to decide whether you are doing something or not.
Yet, as we know, not every habit is good. Therefore, I suggest that you sit down with yourself and ask yourself what are the main priorities for you in life. How do you want to feel? Who do you want to be? What do you want to have? What matters to you the most? What is a must for you every single day and makes the day successful? Who are the most important people in your life that you want to make sure they know you love them?
Once you know what matters to you, you can align your choices and actions with your values. The more you know what you want, the easier it is to make good choices. You can just ask yourself: does this bring me the value that I want? If not, choose something else.
It doesn’t need to make sense to others. You are worthy of choosing for yourself. Here is a little meme you can use when someone starts asking what are you doing :)))
The most important one of all the three is the action you do. However, most people start changing their lives by changing their actions. Actions are the results of your focus and choices. If you don’t align your focus and choices first, good luck with changing your actions.
There is no other thing about action than: JUST DO IT. We all know deep within us what should be done. What would set us free. What would give us inner peace. Yet, we are usually afraid of hurting or disappointing other people, and being judged for our actions.
For me, it helped me the most when I changed my perception. I decided to see this as an opportunity to show other people that they can choose whatever they want as well. I want freedom for myself and I want others to choose the same – even though their action could hurt me. The reality is that we cannot hurt each other. We can only hurt ourselves. It’s true that we cannot influence other people’s actions, yet we can always choose to accept everyone as they are and try to understand their actions… or to get mad and start playing a victim. Probably you know which one feels better. :)))
To make it clearer and explain to you on my personal example how the divine timeline looks like… let me share with you this story.
I often see how I could speed up my business, influence the outcomes and push certain situations to happen faster. I know I’m a hard worker and I know I can decide to go into months of ALL IN working mood to expand the business as I dream of. I know I can get myself a marketing strategist, paid online ads, business coach, and all the others that would speed up the process. Yet, whenever I went in that direction, I didn’t enjoy it. It was too stressful, I was pushing things to happen, I was trying to control the outcomes and every day felt like I’m failing. I set the standards for how fast things need to grow too high.
So instead, I choose to refocus and ask my heart: what does really matter to you? All I’ve been hearing was: I want to be around nature, I want to travel, have fun, meet new people, help people, create memories. This April I chose to listen to my heart completely and this journey has never been so fun! I’ve been traveling a lot, met incredible people, have awesome stories to tell, experienced so many miracles, and lived with joy and peace in my heart.
It might be that my career is growing slower because of that, it might be that I could have more followers, more money, more sold programs if I’d choose the other path. Yet, I realized that following my heart still helps me grow my business, maybe not so rapidly, but the foundation behind is so much stronger. It grows slow and steady and in the meantime – I’m having the time of my life! That’s what I call divine timeline!
I know where I’m going, I know what are my goals, I’m certain of the outcomes, I know what are my priorities, I know who I want to spend more time with and I know I want to have fun… and this is the path that I’m always choosing. I don’t care if it’s not the fastest, what matters to me is that it’s the most enjoyable!
Hope this inspires you to choose the divine & enjoyable timeline as well!